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a tale of two fathers 我的两位父亲
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our parents divorced when karen was a toddler(幼童) , and a few years later we were blessed with the best of a complicated world - a father and a stepfather. the situation wound up(紧张的,兴奋的) a bit confusing later on down the road. especially when it was time for karen to get married.

as sometimes happened in those days, long before shared 1(抚养权,保管) and divorce 2, we didn't maintain much contact with our natural father. it was hoped that our new stepfather would grow to be the apple of our eyes.

gordon was, in fact, a wonderful man. he accepted us as his children and went on to 3(养育,鼓励) , counsel(劝告,建议) and play a major part in the raising of my sister and me. he was the humor in an otherwise dry existence. he was the fun where there often wasn't any. and he was the true keeper of our hearts, with our best interests always at the center of his own.

i maintained ties with my natural father, too, although 4 strained. i saw the situation for what it was and did my best to mend all wounds. gordon supported this whole-heartedly. karen, being years younger than me, grew up without really knowing our natural father.

when karen was in high school and i was married, living far away from home, we went through a second divorce. this time, however, i was careful to maintain ties. gordon remained the father figure he'd always been and even became "grandpa gordon" to my firstborn. karen and gordon grew apart some, but reestablished ties after graduation.

gordon eventually remarried. carol was ideally suited to him and understood the complications of our situation. when they both encouraged karen to mend her 5 ties with dad, she bravely set about renewing a relationship she barely remembered.

communication with dad was, at its best, on the surface. we knew he loved us and he knew we loved him, but the words were seldom spoken aloud. and none of us ever mentioned our relationship with gordon.

before karen announced her engagement, she voiced her concerns. "i want gordon to give me away when i get married."

"mm-hmm," i replied.

"but i want dad to give me away, too. i don't want to hurt either one of them."

i knew gordon would understand. my father, however, would be a little harder to convince. "let me see what i can do."

a letter, i 7, felt right. gordon, of course, was 8 to(参与,知情) my plan and supported it.

dear dad,

we were children when this all started, and the situation was completely out of our hands. as adults now, we need and want you to be our father. we love you and want you to be a part of our lives.

but gordon is a part of our lives, too. he has been a good man, an honest man, and has done everything a father would do for his children.

karen is getting married in a few months. it would mean the world to her, and to me, if you would walk her down the 9 - together with gordon.

loving gordon doesn't mean in any way that we love you any less. there is plenty of room for two wonderful fathers in our lives. gordon always encouraged contact with you, never 6 a word against you or undermined our feelings for you. we respect the fact that you never voiced negative feelings about gordon.

give this some thought. remember both karen and i love you and want our family ties to be restored. remember that in your absence, we established strong family ties with gordon, and it would be unfair to all of us to expect that to stop.

it would be a beautiful sight to watch karen walking down the aisle on her wedding day, flanked by two wonderful fathers. it would be an answer to prayer.

i love you.

kim

a couple of weeks later, karen received a phone call from dad.

"so where do i go to get measured for my tux(燕尾服) ?"

in late august, karen walked down the aisle with a handsome father on each side of her. they wore identical 10 with matching smiles and radiated the same fatherly love and joy.

the 11 to karen and i was twofold. in addition to ending years of confusion and 12(疏远,隔离) , we learned to share the joy of being the proud daughters of two extraordinary fathers.



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1 qntzd     
n.监护,照看,羁押,拘留
参考例句:
  • he spent a week in custody on remand awaiting sentence.等候判决期间他被还押候审一个星期。
  • he was taken into custody immediately after the robbery.抢劫案发生后,他立即被押了起来。
2 5cxxl     
n.调解
参考例句:
  • the dispute was settled by mediation of the third country. 这场争端通过第三国的斡旋而得以解决。
  • the dispute was settled by mediation. 经调解使争端得以解决。
3 k5sz3     
n.养育,照顾,教育;滋养,营养品;vt.养育,给与营养物,教养,扶持
参考例句:
  • the tree grows well in his nurture.在他的培育下这棵树长得很好。
  • the two sisters had received very different nurture.这俩个姊妹接受过极不同的教育。
4 273xz     
adv.最初,开始
参考例句:
  • the ban was initially opposed by the us.这一禁令首先遭到美国的反对。
  • feathers initially developed from insect scales.羽毛最初由昆虫的翅瓣演化而来。
5 832a75b146a8d9eacac9030fd16c0222     
v.切断,断绝( sever的过去式和过去分词 );断,裂
参考例句:
  • the doctor said i'd severed a vessel in my leg. 医生说我割断了腿上的一根血管。 来自《简明英汉词典》
  • we have severed diplomatic relations with that country. 我们与那个国家断绝了外交关系。 来自《简明英汉词典》
6 xryyc     
n.(车轮的)辐条;轮辐;破坏某人的计划;阻挠某人的行动 v.讲,谈(speak的过去式);说;演说;从某种观点来说
参考例句:
  • they sourced the spoke nuts from our company.他们的轮辐螺帽是从我们公司获得的。
  • the spokes of a wheel are the bars that connect the outer ring to the centre.辐条是轮子上连接外圈与中心的条棒。
7 lvqzzd     
adj.决定了的,坚决的;明显的,明确的
参考例句:
  • this gave them a decided advantage over their opponents.这使他们比对手具有明显的优势。
  • there is a decided difference between british and chinese way of greeting.英国人和中国人打招呼的方式有很明显的区别。
8 c1ozl     
adj.私用的;隐密的
参考例句:
  • only three people,including a policeman,will be privy to the facts.只会允许3个人,其中包括一名警察,了解这些内情。
  • very few of them were privy to the details of the conspiracy.他们中很少有人知道这一阴谋的详情。
9 qxpz3     
n.(教堂、教室、戏院等里的)过道,通道
参考例句:
  • the aisle was crammed with people.过道上挤满了人。
  • the girl ushered me along the aisle to my seat.引座小姐带领我沿着通道到我的座位上去。
10 361e677a3179981cd3cdd88c9ac8ce77     
n.餐服,无尾晚礼服( tuxedo的名词复数 )
参考例句:
  • our services include design and tailoring for wedding gowns, tuxedos and party dressesfrom and american brands. 们的服务范围包括高级婚纱设计定制,高级礼服、派对装设计定制,及欧美一线品牌成衣的驳样定制。 来自互联网
  • most tuxedos are black, but some people like to wear white ones called 'morning suits'. 大多数男士无尾晚礼服是黑色的,不过有些人喜欢穿那种被称为“晨服”的白色装。 来自互联网
11 uxdztj     
n.祈神赐福;祷告;祝福,祝愿
参考例句:
  • the blessing was said in hebrew.祷告用了希伯来语。
  • a double blessing has descended upon the house.双喜临门。
12 5nwxt     
n.疏远,失和,不和
参考例句:
  • a period of estrangement from his wife 他与妻子分居期间
  • the quarrel led to a complete estrangement between her and her family. 这一争吵使她同家人完全疏远了。 来自《简明英汉词典》
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